Not until...

I seem to tell myself things like "I won't be happy until I figure out how to not be intimidated by other guys." I don't know how long I have been telling myself things like that but I know that if I don't notice the thought that I will start to act around it and construct my life in a way that makes it true. In other words, I have been living in a way that doesn't make room for happiness until all my problems are figured out which translates into never being happy. Stupid naps.